No matter what the provocation, you must not get taken in.
YOUTH: No, there’s no need to run away from it. If someone wants to start a fight, it’s fine to accept it.
Because it’s the other guy who’s at fault, anyway. You can bash his nose in, the stupid fool. With words, that is.
PHILOSOPHER: Now let’s say you take control of the quarrel.
And then the other man, who was seeking to defeat you, withdraws in a sportsmanlike manner.
The thing is, the power struggle doesn’t end there. Having lost the dispute, he rushes on to the next stage.
YOUTH: The next stage? PHILOSOPHER: Yes. It’s the revenge stage.
Though he has withdrawn for the time being, he will be scheming some revenge in another place and another form,
and will reappear with an act of retaliation. YOUTH: Like what, for instance?
PHILOSOPHER: The child oppressed by his parents will turn to delinquency.
He’ll stop going to school. He’ll cut his wrists or engage in other acts of self-harm.
In Freudian etiology, this is regarded as simple cause and effect:
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