That is to say, by shouting, you wanted to make the waiter submit to you and listen to what you had to say.
As a means to do that, you fabricated the emotion of anger.
YOUTH: I fabricated it? You’ve got to be joking!
PHILOSOPHER: Then why did you raise your voice? YOUTH: As I said before, I blew my top.
I was deeply frustrated. PHILOSOPHER: No. You could have explained matters without raising your voice,
and the waiter would most likely have given you a sincere apology, wiped your jacket with a clean cloth, and taken other appropriate measures.
He might have even arranged for it to be dry-cleaned.
And somewhere in your mind, you were anticipating that he might do these things but, even so, you shouted.
The procedure of explaining things in normal words felt like too much trouble,
and you tried to get out of that and make this unresisting person submit to you.
The tool you used to do this was the emotion of anger.
YOUTH: No way. You can’t fool me. I manufactured anger in order to make him submit to me?
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