PHILOSOPHER: For the same reason, then, it’s crucial to not mix up “feeling of inferiority” and “inferiority complex,”
and to think about them as clearly separate. YOUTH: Concretely, how are they different?
PHILOSOPHER: There is nothing particularly wrong with the feeling of inferiority itself. You understand this point now, right?
As Adler says, the feeling of inferiority can be a trigger for striving and growth.
For instance, if one had a feeling of inferiority with regard to one’s education, and resolved to oneself,
I’m not well educated, so I’ll just have to try harder than anyone else, that would be a desirable direction.
The inferiority complex, on the other hand, refers to a condition of having begun to use one’s feeling of inferiority as a kind of excuse.
So one thinks to oneself, I’m not well educated, so I can’t succeed, or I’m not good-looking, so I can’t get married.
When someone is insisting on the logic of “A is the situation, so B cannot be done” in such a way in everyday life,
that is not something that fits in the feeling of inferiority category. It is an inferiority complex.
YOUTH: No, it’s a legitimate causal relationship. If you’re not well educated, it takes away your chances of getting work or making it in the world.
You’re regarded as low on the social scale, and you can’t succeed. That’s not an excuse at all.
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